Talking about it is caring for others!
Discussing a positive STBBI result is nobody’s idea of a good time. You might be afraid of being judged, not knowing how a partner will react or just wishing the problem will go away on its own.
But STBBIs don't just magically disappear. They require treatment…and the courage to get the conversation started.
Disclosing your status to people who have been exposed lets them get tested and seek necessary treatment.
Informing your partners is more than an obligation. It’s a matter of respect. It’s saying: “I care about my health and yours too.”
Courage means doing the hard thing…even if it makes you feel anxious.
Want to perfect the art of disclosing your test results? Give this article a read.
Tip #1
Don’t worry about being perfect, just be honest
It’s only normal to be afraid of how someone will react or to feel discouraged, but some people might surprise you and even appreciate that you took the time to let them know.
The more we take the drama out of talking about STBBIs, the more we break down taboos.
The idea is to talk about it openly and without judgment. You could start by saying something like:
“I got tested and the results came back positive for chlamydia. I know we saw each other recently, so I wanted to let you know so that you can go get tested, too.”
If you’re nervous, feel free to add:
“I’m nervous about telling you this because I care about you.”
Tip #2
Use your preferred method of communication
Share the news via text message, over the phone, or face-to-face. All that matters is that you share it however you feel most comfortable.
If you prefer to remain anonymous, you can always use the partner notification service on the Quebec HIV/Aids Portal to send a notification without revealing your identity.
