First time or not, protection is essential
Just because you want to experience something for the first time doesn't mean you have to sacrifice your safety.
Having sex for the first time is exciting and can be a little nerve-wracking, even when you’re trying not to make a big deal out of it. The most important thing is to do it comfortably and enjoyably. And that means protecting yourself from STBBIs.
Tip #1
Always keep one (or two) condoms handy
If you want to be ready to seize the opportunity when it arises, carrying a condom with you is just common sense. Better safe than sorry! Keep one in your bag, wallet, or nightstand. And make sure it's not damaged or expired!
Planning on losing your virginity without penetration? Get a dental dam, a small square of latex that you can apply to the vulva or anus before stimulating them with your mouth or tongue. You can also make your own by cutting a condom lengthwise.
Tip #2
Even if you don't intend to have penetrative sex, you may still need to get tested
Yes, it’s possible to contract an STBBI even during nonpenetrative sexual activity. As soon as there’s direct contact between genitals, or between the mouth and genitals, or when sharing toys, the risk is there. Make an appointment to get tested so you have a more accurate idea of your sexual health.
If there is no penetration, you can still reduce the risks by using a dental dam, a small square of latex that you can place over the vulva or anus before stimulating them with your mouth or tongue. You can also make your own by cutting a condom lengthwise.
To learn more about various protection methods—regardless of the type of sex you have—check out this article from Club Sexu.
